The Authentic Experience
Seth Garceau (right) and friends going to a Bob Dylan concert
with Seth's father, Rick Garceau, in Des Moines, Iowa in 2004.
By Rick Garceau
When I was growing up, I loved listening to music. My passion was so strong that I knew it was something I wanted to share with my children, Seth and Tess.
Although the popular music of the time had changed between our generations, I still wanted the kids to appreciate classic rock in the way that I did. I started by introducing songs from bands such as The Grateful Dead, The Beatles, and Bob Dylan. In the morning, while I prepared breakfast I would blast music from these bands that the kids thought was “outdated.” While they would eat, I would sing along with the music and they would laugh and make jokes about how terrible my singing was. Even though the jokes were at my expense, I couldn’t think of a better way to spend my mornings. Seth and Tess eventually learned the words better than I did, and that’s when I knew that music was something that would keep us together.
As the kids got older and started spending more time with their friends, our family still had the music to keep us in touch. My son and his friends were all Bob Dylan fans, just as I was, so it was a great surprise that they kept me in mind when they had an extra ticket to one of his shows. I was touched that out of all the people they could have asked to go, they chose me. The only problem was that I was building a house on Madeline Island in Lake Superior, and the concert was 11 hours away in Des Moines. However, I wasn’t going to let the distance keep from missing out on this great opportunity to enjoy Dylan with Seth and his friends.
I left early in the morning and drove nine hours to my hometown to pick up the boys and proceed to the concert. After three more hours of driving, we were finally there. The concert was phenomenal, as we all expected. But what I will remember most are the smiles of excitement on the boys’ faces during the entire show. At that moment, I forgot about the long drive ahead of me and just let the good times roll.
Shortly after the concert, Seth, a member of the Iowa National Guard, volunteered to join his battalion to fight the war in Iraq. After a mere 30 days of being there, Seth was killed by a roadside bomb that struck his Humvee. During the years to follow, I experienced many different emotions, but a large part of what I was feeling was emptiness. When you lose a child you not only lose them, but you also lose a huge part of yourself.
It took me awhile to adjust, but I found that through listening to music, I could start getting that part of myself back. Music has a way of conveying emotions that you sometimes can’t explain on your own. Music gave me a voice of my own and by listening to music that Seth and I both loved, I found a way to keep him alive in my heart. I eventually got back on my feet and started feeling more and more like myself. But something was still missing.
Although Seth was always with me in my heart, I wanted a way to celebrate his life and our love for music in a way that everyone could see. I devoted the next few years to remodeling my living room into a room built completely for Seth. In this room, I started by displaying military emblems, such as his purple heart and the items that he was carrying at the time of his death.
I didn’t want the entire room to be about Seth’s military endeavors, though, so I thought carefully about other ways I could memorialize his life. That's when I found Jerry Gladstone's autograph company, American Royal Arts. I ended up purchasing an autographed Grateful Dead guitar and an autographed Dylan and the Dead poster to remind me of the cherished hours Seth and I used to spend together, talking, laughing, and listening to these famous artists.
These tokens of the bond with my son meant the world to me. So I was devastated to discover that the autographs on the guitar and the poster, like all the classic rock memorabilia sold to me by Jerry Gladstone, were forgeries authenticated by Christopher Morales.
Now, the memorabilia that once brought back pleasant memories of my son elicits feelings of heartbreak and disgust.
By betraying me and thousands of others like me, these criminals have not only stolen our money. They have robbed us of much more than that.
Related:
The Jimi Hendrix Experience, Courtesy of American Royal Arts
Tags: Jerry gladstone, american royal arts, christopher Morales, dylan, fake, forgeries, grateful dead
Permalink Reply by Rick Garceau on May 20, 2012 at 7:59am Dear Rick,
Thank you very much, your experience is very valuble. Currently I'm also conducting some independed expertise but my items not too expencive and they don't worth much hussle.
Best regards, Dmitri.
Permalink Reply by Steve Cyrkin-Moderator on Sunday Rick,
I was at the Nixon Library for a school project, and going through the incredibly moving Vietnam War exhibit, I started thinking about you, Seth and Tess.
How are you doing?
Thank you all for your dedication, your selfless dedication, to America. I wish I had met Seth, but thanks to you, I feel that I have in a way.
I won't be the only one here toasting Seth this weekend.
Take care,
Steve
Permalink Reply by Rick Garceau on Sunday
Permalink Reply by Steve Cyrkin-Moderator yesterday What a great honor, Rick. I would love to have heard the stories that all of you told today--and quite likely STILL telling today.
G-d Bless...
Steve
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